Unlearning Society’s Conditioning:
When we tap into our inner child, we reconnect with a part of ourselves that is free from the scars and defense mechanisms that society has imposed upon us. Our inner child doesn’t know that society labels sex as dirty or secret. It doesn’t carry the weight of societal judgments or the shame that may have been instilled in us by our parents or caregivers.
Our inner child is innocent and curious, and it desires to experience the world with an open heart and an open mind. It doesn’t distinguish between what is considered right or wrong by society’s standards. Instead, it seeks to explore and understand the world in its purest form.
By embracing our inner child, we can begin to unlearn the conditioning that has shaped our beliefs and attitudes towards sex. We can let go of the messages that tell us that our desires are shameful or that we should hide our sexuality. Instead, we can approach sex with the same innocence and wonder that our inner child embodies.
Embracing our inner child allows us to reclaim our natural connection to our bodies and pleasure. It helps us shed the shame and embarrassment that may have held us back from fully embracing our sexuality. We can let go of the judgments and expectations that society has placed upon us, and instead, listen to our own desires and needs.
We can explore our bodies and our desires without judgment or inhibition. Our inner child guides us towards embracing pleasure and seeking out what brings us joy and fulfillment.
Trusting Your Body’s Wisdom:
Our inner child doesn’t carry the burden of societal judgments that label seeking pleasure as hedonistic or dirty. It simply explores and listens to the wisdom of our bodies. Our inner child finds joy in discovering what feels good and appreciates the simple pleasures that life has to offer. It loves and embraces our bodies, recognizing the immense potential for pleasure they hold.
When we reconnect with our inner child, we can tap into the intuitive nature of our bodies. Our bodies are incredible vessels of sensation and pleasure, and by trusting their guidance, we can fully immerse ourselves in the present moment. Just like a child, we can let go of worries about the future or judgments about our desires, and instead, focus on the sheer joy and connection that arises from embracing pleasure.
Approaching sex and sensuality with a childlike mindset allows us to fully surrender to the experience. We can let go of inhibitions, fears, and self-consciousness, and instead, revel in the delight and pleasure that our bodies are capable of experiencing. By listening to our bodies and following their cues, we can discover new sensations, explore different erogenous zones, and uncover the depths of our desires.
Our inner child reminds us to appreciate and love our bodies as they are. It encourages us to celebrate the unique pleasure that our bodies can bring, without judgment or comparison. By embracing our bodies and all the pleasure they can offer, we cultivate a deep sense of self-love and acceptance.
Playfulness and Exploration:
When we tap into our inner child, we see our partner’s body much like our own – a beautiful canvas of exploration and pleasure. Just as children find joy in discovering new games and activities, we can approach our partner’s body with a sense of curiosity, seeking out what brings them pleasure and delight.
Embracing our inner child means enjoying the playful aspects of intimacy. We can laugh, play, dance, and even engage in friendly wrestling matches. By letting go of worries and cares, we create a space where enjoyment and exploration take center stage.
With our partner, we can engage in a delightful dance of giving and receiving pleasure. Just as a child finds joy in sharing their toys or creating imaginative games, we can use our bodies to bring pleasure to our partner’s face, exploring their erogenous zones and discovering what makes them light up with delight.
Playfulness and exploration allow us to break free from societal expectations or performance pressures. Instead, we focus on the sheer joy of the moment, savoring the sensations and experiences that arise. By embracing a childlike mindset, we create a safe and loving space where pleasure becomes a shared adventure.
In this space of playfulness and exploration, there are no worries or cares other than the enjoyment and discovery of pleasure. We let go of inhibitions and embrace the freedom to express ourselves authentically, creating a deeper connection with our partner.
Letting Go of Inhibitions:
Our inner child is not burdened by concerns about what others think. It doesn’t fear rejection or being viewed as dirty. It doesn’t worry about societal expectations or the judgments of friends and family. Instead, it simply takes in everything around it and finds joy in the present moment.
When we embrace our inner child in our sexual experiences, we can let go of inhibitions and fears that hold us back. We release the need to conform to societal norms or please others. Instead, we focus on our own desires, pleasure, and authentic expression.
By relinquishing the thoughts and teachings of our parents or society, we create space for true exploration and enjoyment. We let go of any shame or guilt associated with our sexuality and embrace the freedom to fully express ourselves.
Approaching sex with the carefree mindset of our inner child allows us to be present in the moment. We can fully engage with our partner, experiencing pleasure without the weight of self-consciousness or doubts. We let go of worries, insecurities, and expectations, creating a space where vulnerability, intimacy, and connection can flourish.
In this liberated state, we can fully embrace our desires, fantasies, and preferences. We can communicate openly with our partner, expressing our needs and boundaries without fear of judgment. By embracing our authentic selves, we invite our partner to do the same, fostering a deeper level of trust and understanding.
Embracing the Present Moment:
As a practitioner of Buddhism and Tantra, I understand the importance of mindfulness and living in the present moment. Our inner child effortlessly embodies this mindset, naturally embracing the here and now without being burdened by thoughts of the past or expectations for the future. It simply experiences, explores, and enjoys the present moment.
When we tap into our inner child during sexual experiences, we let go of worries and distractions. We become fully present, focusing on the sensations that arise in our bodies and the connection we share with our partner. By immersing ourselves in the here and now, we create a worry-free space where sex becomes an all-encompassing experience.
In this state of mindful presence, we can fully appreciate and enjoy every aspect of the sexual encounter. We savor the touch of our partner’s skin, relish in the taste and scent of their body, and delight in the sounds of pleasure we create together. Every sensation becomes heightened, intensifying the pleasure and deepening the connection.
By letting go of the past and future, we free ourselves from the weight of expectations and judgments. We release any concerns about performance or meeting societal standards. Instead, we focus on the present moment, allowing ourselves to be fully immersed in the pleasure and joy that arises.
This worry-free mindset opens the door to a more profound and fulfilling sexual experience. We become attuned to our own desires and needs, as well as those of our partner. We communicate openly and authentically, expressing our desires and boundaries without hesitation. By being fully present, we create a space for vulnerability, intimacy, and deep connection.
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