In tantric or BDSM relationships, sexuality holds a significant place of importance. It serves as a powerful avenue for connection, exploration, and expression between partners. However, amidst the hustle and bustle of daily life, it’s not uncommon for sexual intimacy to take a backseat, becoming a mere afterthought rather than a priority. 

But what if there was a way to ensure that your sexual connection remains vibrant and alive, even amidst the demands of everyday life? Enter the concept of scheduling daily time for sexual encounters, sensual touch, or acts of pleasure. This intentional approach to intimacy can truly transform and deepen your connection with your partner, allowing you to fully engage in the pleasure and exploration that your dynamic offers. 

In the last year, Daddy and I have discovered the beauty of setting aside dedicated time in our busy schedules for our sexual and sensual connection. It has been a delightful addition to our relationship, ensuring that we don’t neglect our intimate bond or let it fade into the background. Having this time set aside has made it so we don’t feel we are losing sleep or taking away from other activities. Instead, we can approach these moments with a sense of anticipation and excitement, knowing that we have intentionally made space for them. 

In this blog post, we will explore the benefits of scheduling daily time for sexual encounters or sensual touch, and how it can enhance your relationship and overall well-being. So, let’s dive in and discover the transformative power of intentional intimacy.

Understanding the Importance of Scheduling:

In tantric or BDSM relationships, sexuality is often seen as an integral part of spirituality and personal growth.. However, in the midst of our busy lives, it can be challenging to prioritize and make space for this sacred aspect of our relationships.

In my own relationship, we have encountered similar challenges. We tried to fit our sexual encounters and sensual moments into the spaces between other activities, attempting to find that elusive balance. Yet, it often felt forced and awkward, as if we were squeezing in something important amidst the chaos of our routines.

Recognizing the significance of sexual and sensual connection in our relationship, we made a conscious decision to change our approach. We realized that by setting aside dedicated time, we could create a space where intimacy could thrive without the distractions or constraints of our daily lives. 

One significant change we made was incorporating our sensual time into our bedtime routine. By adjusting our schedule, we allowed ourselves plenty of time for sensual touch or wherever our desires led us. This simple shift has had a profound impact on our connection and satisfaction.

By setting aside specific time for our sensual experiences, we have created a safe and sacred space where we can fully immerse ourselves in pleasure, exploration, and vulnerability. It allows us to let go of external pressures and be fully present with one another. This intentional time for intimacy fosters trust, openness, and mutual understanding, deepening our emotional bond and enhancing our physical pleasure.

Not only has scheduling our sensual time improved our connection, but it has also alleviated the pressure of trying to find the right moment for intimacy. No longer do we feel like we are sacrificing sleep or taking away from other important activities. Instead, we approach our scheduled moments of intimacy with anticipation and excitement, knowing that we have intentionally set aside this time for our pleasure and connection.

By embracing the concept of scheduling daily time for sexual encounters or sensual touch, we have discovered the transformative power of intentional intimacy. It has allowed us to prioritize our sexual connection, ensuring that it remains vibrant and alive amidst the demands of everyday life. This dedicated time has become a sanctuary of pleasure and exploration, where we can fully embrace our desires and deepen our bond.

Prioritizing Sexual Wellness:

In the realm of BDSM relationships, the importance of sexual well-being cannot be overstated. It goes beyond the realm of physical pleasure and becomes an essential element in nurturing the connection between Dominant and submissive. By making a conscious effort to set aside time for sexual encounters, you demonstrate the significance of this aspect of your relationship and show a genuine commitment to the satisfaction and fulfillment of both partners.

When you prioritize sexual wellness by scheduling dedicated time for intimate encounters, you create a space where you can truly explore your desires, fantasies, and boundaries. This intentional approach allows you to engage in sexual experiences with mindfulness and care, fostering a sense of emotional and physical closeness that can enhance the overall connection between you and your partner.

By setting aside this time, you send a powerful message to your partner that their pleasure and satisfaction matter to you. It shows a deep level of commitment and care, as you prioritize their sexual well-being alongside your own. This act of prioritization not only strengthens your bond but also creates a foundation of trust and open communication, where both partners feel comfortable expressing their needs and desires.

Furthermore, making a conscious effort to schedule time for sexual encounters can help overcome the challenges of busy lives and competing priorities. It allows you to create a dedicated space where you can let go of external pressures and fully immerse yourselves in the pleasure and connection that intimacy brings. By intentionally carving out this time, you ensure that sexual well-being remains a central focus in your relationship, rather than something that gets pushed aside or overlooked.

Creating Rituals of Connection:

In BDSM relationships, embracing rituals can add an extra layer of depth and meaning to your connection with your Dominant. One such ritual that Daddy and I have incorporated into our daily routine is our long-standing coffee ritual, which we have expanded to include elements of morning sensuality and cock worship.This ritual has become a cherished time of connection and closeness, setting the tone for our day ahead.

By incorporating elements of sensuality and cock worship into our morning coffee ritual, we have created a dedicated time where we can deepen our bond. It is a time where I, as the submissive, can express my adoration and reverence for Daddy’s masculine power and presence. This act of worship allows me to show my devotion and submission, while also providing Daddy with a sense of affirmation and appreciation.

Beyond the physical pleasure, the ritual itself holds great significance for us. It serves as a reminder of our power dynamic and the trust we have built over time. The act of setting aside this time for connection and pleasure allows us to embrace our roles and explore our desires.

Rituals of connection, like our morning coffee ritual, can be a powerful tool in establishing and maintaining the power dynamics within a D/s relationship.

Moreover, rituals can serve as a source of comfort and stability amidst the chaos of everyday life. They provide a sense of predictability and grounding, allowing both you and your Dominant to navigate the challenges of the outside world with a solid foundation of connection and understanding.

 Flexibility for Exploration:

Daddy and I have discovered the beauty of incorporating flexibility into our scheduled time for intimacy. While it may seem counterintuitive to have a structured approach to our bedtime routine, Daddy added a dedicated time for Freeform touch, allowing us the freedom to explore and indulge in whatever brings us pleasure and connection in the moment.

Having this time available without pressure or structure has been a wonderful addition to our bedtime routine. It provides us with the opportunity to engage in activities such as massage, cuddling, sex, or any other form of sensual exploration that we desire. The absence of rigid expectations allows us to truly be in tune with each other’s needs and desires, ensuring that our intimate experiences are authentic and fulfilling.

Flexibility in our scheduled intimacy time offers us the freedom to adapt and explore based on our ever-changing desires and moods. It allows us to embrace the spontaneity and excitement that comes with exploring new avenues of pleasure and connection. By being open to possibilities and being attuned to each other’s cues and preferences, we create an environment where our intimate experiences are deeply satisfying and pleasurable.

Conclusion:

Setting  aside daily time for sex and sensual touch in our BDSM relationship has added immeasurable value. No longer feeling rushed or lacking in time, we now have the assurance of dedicated moments solely for our pleasure. It is a beautiful testament to the importance we place on our relationship and the joy we find in each other’s presence. So, remember to carve out that special time for your own connection, for it is a delightful reminder that you are cherished and valued, fostering a deeper bond and a sense of appreciation for the precious moments shared together.