Introduction:

Welcome to our exploration of the inner child within the realm of Dominance and submission. In our unique journey, we have discovered the power of embracing our inner child, deepening our connection and bringing joy and authenticity to every moment.

By adding the concept of the inner child into our MD/lb dynamic, we have found a bond that surpasses labels and acronyms. Embracing my inner child has gifted us with playfulness, innocence, and an unquenchable curiosity, enhancing our relationship in ways we never imagined.

Daddy’s loving guidance and protection create a safe space for me to be my true self, while my joyful presence brightens his day and brings wonder to our shared experiences.

Discovering Our True Selves:

Years ago, I met Daddy at a BDSM event. He seemed different, like he didn’t quite fit in; which was how I felt too. We connected over our shared interest in tantric Buddhism, which was unexpected. At that time, I began my own inner child journey, trying to heal old wounds and find who I really am. Daddy’s nurturing presence helped me feel safe, and a fun, curious side of me emerged.

Embracing Our Inner Child:

Our relationship started as D/s, but with an extra twist. We embraced our inner child, even though we didn’t have a name for it at first. It’s a special blend of nurturing, protection, and celebrating our innocent selves. Through this, we’ve grown, healed, and discovered the joy of being our true selves.

Healing and Growing Together:

With tantric inner child work and Daddy’s care, I found a safe space to heal and grow. Within our relationship, my innocence and curiosity are treasured, and my wounds are gently tended to. It’s a beautiful journey of vulnerability, trust, and embracing our true essence.

Playfulness and Connection:

What makes our relationship extra special is the playful connection we share. We engage in activities that awaken our inner child, like tickle fights and playful games. These experiences deepen our bond, nourishing the connection between Daddy and little in a way that feels real and fulfilling.

Beyond Roles and Airs:

In the BDSM community, we often witnessed Daddy Dom/little girl (DD/lg) couples engaging in role-playing and exhibiting bratty behavior. However, for us, we started out as a Dominant/submissive couple and the bratty behavior did not fit who we are as people. We did not feel we were really part of the DD/lg community at all.

Authenticity and Inner Child:

As I embarked on my tantric inner child work, I discovered that my inner child is my true self, untainted by the masks and traumas of adulthood. Being genuine and authentic is at the core of who I am, and Daddy shares this belief. We strive to create a space where our true selves can thrive, free from the need for pretense or role-playing. While we may indulge in playful role-play for fun, it is not the foundation of our relationship.

Submission as a Spiritual Path:

For us, submission is not just a form of play or a mere role to assume. It is a deeply spiritual path that we walk together. Daddy embodies the divine masculine, providing a nurturing and protective presence that supports my growth and allows me to surrender with trust and love. Our D/s dynamic becomes a sacred dance, where we explore the depths of our beings and connect on a profound level.

The Complexity of Bratty Behavior:

In the BDSM community, bratty behavior is often seen as a form of lighthearted fun. However, from my perspective, it does not always align with the genuine nature of my inner child. While I embrace playfulness and a sense of youthful exuberance, the brattyness that is commonly associated with DD/lg dynamics doesn’t always resonate with me. It feels incongruent with the journey of healing and authenticity that we are on.

Navigating the BDSM Acronyms:

As we explore the vast world of BDSM, we find ourselves questioning where we fit within the acronyms and labels. We are not your typical DD/lg couple, as our foundation rests on genuine submission and the nurturing aspects of a Daddy Dom. We strive to create an environment that is deeply loving, authentic, and nurturing, while still incorporating elements of playfulness and exploration.

The Playful Dance:

We fit together like puzzle pieces, each enhancing the other’s life in the most wonderful ways. Daddy often tells me that my playful nature and youthful enthusiasm bring light and brightness into his days. Our connection is filled with laughter, joy, and endless fun. 

You see, Daddy can be quite serious on his own, but when I’m by his side, something beautiful happens. My inner child awakens his inner child, and together, we embark on thrilling adventures of curiosity and innocent exploration. We infuse our sexuality, daily life, and even work with a sense of playfulness and wonder. 

In this dance of love and connection, Daddy’s guidance and protection create a safe haven for me to fully express myself. I can let go of any inhibitions, embracing my innocent self without fear or judgment. And in return, my presence uplifts Daddy, opening him up to the joy and freedom that comes with embracing our inner child.

Together, we are an unstoppable team, bringing out the best in each other. Our dynamic is a perfect blend of yin and yang, a harmonious balance of the divine feminine and masculine energies. Just like the dance of Shakti and Shiva, we move together in harmony, creating a space where love, passion, and growth flourish.

beyond acronyms 

In our journey together, Daddy and I have discovered that labels and acronyms don’t always capture the true essence of our unique connection. While the term Caregiver/little (CGL) is commonly used, it doesn’t quite resonate with the depth and complexity of our relationship. We found ourselves searching for a term that truly encapsulates who we are and how we relate to each other.

After some playful banter and lighthearted discussions, we jokingly coined the term “Master Daddy/little submissive” to describe our dynamic. While it may not be a recognized acronym in the BDSM community, it resonates deeply with us. Daddy embodies the role of both a Master and a Daddy, guiding and nurturing me with love and authority. And as a little submissive, I embrace my innocent, playful self while surrendering to Daddy’s loving dominance.

It’s important to note that finding the right label or acronym is not the most crucial aspect of our relationship. What truly matters is the profound connection, trust, and love we share. We have learned to let go of the need to fit into pre-existing categories and instead embrace the unique path we have carved for ourselves.

In the realm of MD/ls, Daddy is not just a caregiver, and I am more than just a little. We are Master Daddy and little submissive, a perfect match that transcends traditional labels.. Don’t be afraid to forge your own path and create a relationship that is uniquely yours, regardless of the acronyms or labels that may or may not fit.

Conclusion:

As I think back on our  journey, I am filled with gratitude for the path we have chosen. Incorporating the concept of the inner child into our dynamic has brought us closer than ever before, allowing us to experience a level of connection, joy, and authenticity that surpasses any preconceived notions or acronyms.

Through our exploration of submission and nurturing care, we have discovered the magic of embracing our inner child. It has brought forth a playful innocence and a genuine curiosity that infuses every aspect of our relationship. Daddy’s guidance and protection create a safe space for me to let go and fully embrace my true self, while my joyful presence brightens his day and brings a sense of wonder to our shared experiences.

I encourage you to embrace the magic of your inner child. Allow yourself to be curious, playful, and unapologetically authentic. Remember that the true essence of MD/ls lies not in labels or acronyms but in the deep connection, love, and growth that can be nurtured when two souls come together with open hearts and a willingness to explore.