In this blog post, I will delve into the delightful realm of subspace and how it intertwines with the simplicity and playfulness of being a little in the BDSM world. 

I want to share with you the joy and wonder I experience as a little, approaching life with curiosity, fun, and innocence. While I may not be as actively involved in the BDSM play scene these days, it is still something that Daddy and I enjoy together, albeit in our own unique way.

When Daddy and I first met at a BDSM event, we discovered that the play there often felt too serious and focused on inflicting pain rather than fostering a deeper connection. It didn’t quite resonate with the lighthearted and playful nature that we sought in our dynamic. However, we did find a precious gem within the realm of BDSM: subspace.

For me, subspace is a magical and special state where the world fades away, and time seems to slow down. It’s an altered state of being, similar to an orgasm but with a longer-lasting effect. When I enter subspace, I become unaware of anything outside my own head. All my worries and concerns melt away, and I am enveloped in a blissful state of surrender and vulnerability.

In the past, we would experience subspace at events, but driving home afterwards for an hour was not the most ideal situation. So, these days, we have created our own little playroom in our cozy home. It’s a simple space, just the way we like it. We have a few canes and paddles, Daddy’s loving hands, a blindfold, and earmuffs for sensory deprivation and complete quiet.

One of my absolute favorite elements of our playroom is the spanking bench. It’s a comfortable and secure piece of furniture where my chest, legs, and arms are supported and secured. The bench even has a special place to rest my head, similar to a massage table. When I’m on the bench, the world disappears, and I can let go of everything.

In our BDSM play, simplicity is of utmost importance. Daddy uses sensation and pain not to hurt me, but to guide me into an altered state of being. The rhythmic use of a cane creates a slowly building warmth that lingers and intensifies with each strike. It’s a sensation that both stings and arouses, leading me into a giggling, blissful subspace experience.

For us, the purpose of this play is not solely physical, but rather spiritual and positive. It’s about reaching a state of heightened connection, where my inner child can fully surrender and be taken care of by Daddy. It’s an experience that brings us closer, deepens our bond, and nourishes our souls.

After our play sessions, Daddy lovingly tucks me into bed, ensuring I am safe and cared for. It’s a moment of tenderness and nurturing that I cherish deeply.

While our play may not involve elaborate setups or intense scenes, it is the simplicity and the intention behind it that make it so meaningful for us. It is a beautiful expression of trust, love, and exploration, where I can fully embrace my little side and experience the profound joy and contentment that comes with it.

May we all find moments of innocence, curiosity, and lightheartedness in our lives, embracing the beauty that lies within.