Today, we embark on a tantric journey of self-discovery and pleasure, where we will embrace our femininity, sexuality, and our bodies. Even if you are starting from a place of discomfort and shame, we can transform and unlock the power of self-pleasure. Together, we will explore the wonders of the G-spot and vaginal orgasms, using gentle and nurturing Tantric techniques. And to enhance our exploration, we will introduce the jade yoni wand and yoni egg, sacred tools that can deepen our connection with pleasure. Get ready to embrace your sensuality and dive into a world of profound self-pleasure.

Embrace your Body

I want to talk to you about something that might feel a little sensitive, but I promise it’s important and worth exploring. If you’ve ever been told that masturbating is bad or dirty, or if you’ve experienced shame or embarrassment around it, please know that you’re not alone.

It’s possible that you may have been caught masturbating as a child and made to feel ashamed. Those experiences can stick with us and create negative beliefs about our bodies and our desire for pleasure. But let me assure you, my dear, that there is nothing wrong or shameful about exploring your own body and finding pleasure within yourself.

Sometimes, societal or cultural conditioning can make us believe that touching ourselves or owning a sex toy is something to be mortified about. But let’s challenge those beliefs together and shift our perspective.

It’s essential to understand that self-pleasure is a completely natural and healthy part of life. It’s a way for us to connect with ourselves, our desires, and our bodies. By exploring our own pleasure, we can also enhance our intimate connections with our partners.

If you’re in a committed relationship, it’s important to communicate openly with your partner about your desires and needs. You might be pleasantly surprised to find that they are supportive and understanding. Remember, my dear, your body and your pleasure are valid and deserving of love and attention.

Changing our perspective takes time and patience, but it’s absolutely possible. Start by releasing any feelings of shame or guilt that may linger from the past. Embrace self-love and acceptance of your body, recognizing its beauty and capacity for pleasure.

Introduce small steps towards self-exploration and self-pleasure. It can be as simple as taking a warm bath and gently touching your own skin with love and tenderness. Gradually, you can explore further, perhaps with the help of a trusted sex toy that resonates with you.

Remember, my sweet friend, your body is a gift, and experiencing pleasure is a natural and wonderful part of being human. Embrace your desires, love yourself fully, and allow yourself to experience the joy and ecstasy that your body is capable of.

Learning to Love Your Yoni

I want to share with you something truly special and beautiful—the concept of viewing your vagina as a yoni. The word “yoni” comes from Sanskrit and is often used with a sense of reverence to describe the vagina. It’s a beautiful word that reflects the importance and spirituality of this part of our bodies.

By embracing the term “yoni,” we can reimagine our perspective and cultivate a deeper understanding and love for this sacred part of ourselves. Your yoni is not just a physical aspect, but a gateway to pleasure, connection, and even spiritual awakening.

Think of your yoni as a precious gift, a beautiful flower that holds immense power and potential. It has the ability to bring pleasure, create life, and is vital to humanity, especially as women. Understanding, exploring, and loving your yoni can be a truly wonderful and transformative experience.

By shifting our mindset and recognizing the sacredness of our yoni, we can develop a deeper appreciation for its beauty and significance. Embracing the word “yoni” allows us to honor and celebrate this extraordinary part of our bodies with love, respect, and admiration.

Let’s embrace our yoni as a sacred and vital part of who we are. Remember, it’s all about self-love, acceptance, and acknowledging the beauty and power within us.

Getting Over the Embarrassment of Sex Toys and Finding an Elegant Solution:

I want to introduce you to something truly special and beautiful—the world of yoni wands and yoni eggs. These exquisite tools have a long history, and they are made of gemstones that hold spiritual significance. Not only are they incredibly beautiful, but they can also help us in our journey of self-love, pleasure, and embracing our femininity.

I understand that the thought of being caught with sex toys or having others see them can be embarrassing or uncomfortable. But fear not, my dear ones, because yoni wands and yoni eggs offer a discreet and elegant solution. They are so stunning and of such high quality that you could even leave them on a coffee table, and people would comment on their beauty without realizing their true purpose.

Yoni wands and yoni eggs have been used for hundreds of years as tools for self-love, pleasure, and learning to embrace our femininity. They are made from different types of gemstones, each with its own unique energetic properties. These gemstones have been treasured throughout history for their spiritual significance and healing qualities.

Using a yoni wand or yoni egg is not just about the physical pleasure it can bring. It’s also a way to connect with yourself on a deeper level, to explore your sensuality, and to learn to love and appreciate your body even more. These beautiful tools can help us tap into our inner power and embrace our femininity with grace and confidence.

So let go of any shame or embarrassment you may feel about using sex toys. Embrace the beauty and spiritual significance of yoni wands and yoni eggs. They are not seen as deviant or only for chronic masturbators, but as tools for self-discovery and self-love.

If someone were to find these beautiful items and understand their significance, they would see you as someone who is spiritual, comfortable with their body, and on a journey of self-love and exploration. Yoni wands and yoni eggs are symbols of empowerment and a celebration of our femininity.

As part of my practice, I provide these tools to clients, eliminating the need to visit a sex shop or worry about non-discreet packaging or bills from online vendors. For readers I will provide a link at the end of the article so that if you are interested in obtaining a  yoni wand or egg you can easily find one. 

Remember, you have the right to explore your own pleasure and embrace your body in whichever way feels right for you. Yoni wands and yoni eggs can be wonderful companions on that journey, helping you to discover new depths of self-love and pleasure.

A Little Anatomy Review 

Let’s dive into the fascinating world of the clitoris and the G-spot. Understanding these areas of our bodies can open up new realms of pleasure and exploration. So, let’s explore the anatomy and unique experiences of clitoral and G-spot orgasms!

1. The Clitoris:

The clitoris is a highly sensitive and pleasure-packed part of the female anatomy. It is located at the top part of the vulva, just above the vaginal opening. The clitoris is made up of a small external part, called the glans, which is covered by a protective hood. Beneath the surface, the clitoris extends deeper into the body, with two shafts and legs that wrap around the vaginal opening.

The clitoris contains thousands of nerve endings, making it incredibly sensitive to touch and stimulation. It is often considered the primary source of pleasure for many women. When aroused, the clitoris becomes engorged with blood, leading to increased sensitivity and pleasurable sensations.

2. The G-Spot:

The G-spot, also known as the Gräfenberg spot, is an erogenous area located on the front wall of the vagina, about 2-3 inches inside. It is named after Dr. Ernst Gräfenberg, who first described its existence. The G-spot is said to be an area of increased sensitivity and can lead to intense pleasure and even orgasm when stimulated.

The G-spot is often described as having a slightly rougher texture compared to the surrounding vaginal walls. It can be found by inserting a finger into the vagina and gently pressing upwards towards the front wall. It may take some exploration and experimentation to locate the G-spot, as its size, sensitivity, and exact location can vary from woman to woman.

3. Clitoral Orgasms:

Clitoral orgasms are often described as intense, localized pleasure that stems from direct stimulation of the clitoris. This can be achieved through various techniques, such as manual stimulation, oral sex, or using vibrators specifically designed for clitoral pleasure. Clitoral orgasms are often characterized by rhythmic contractions in the pelvic area, accompanied by intense pleasure and release.

4. G-Spot Orgasms:

G-spot orgasms are often described as deeper, more intense sensations that radiate through the body. Stimulation of the G-spot can lead to a build-up of pleasure that culminates in a powerful release. G-spot orgasms can be achieved through manual stimulation, certain sexual positions, or using toys specifically designed for G-spot pleasure.

5. Anterior Fornix (A-Spot) Orgasms:

Beyond the clitoris and the G-spot, there is another erogenous area known as the anterior fornix, or A-spot. Located deep inside the vagina, near the cervix, the A-spot is often described as a sensitive area that, when stimulated, can produce intense pleasure and even trigger full-body orgasms. The A-spot is lesser-known but can be explored through deep penetration or using longer toys designed to reach this area.

It’s important to note that every woman’s body is unique, and pleasure can be experienced in a variety of ways. Some women may find clitoral stimulation to be the most pleasurable, while others may discover that G-spot or A-spot stimulation brings them incredible satisfaction. Exploring and embracing the diversity of pleasure is a beautiful journey of self-discovery.

Find a Nice Comfy Space

Let’s embark on a journey of self-exploration and create a sacred space where we can truly connect with ourselves. Finding a quiet and cozy spot where you feel safe and relaxed is the first step. It could be your bedroom, a cozy corner of your home, or anywhere that allows you to feel at ease.

Once you have found your special space, take a moment to connect with your breath and set an intention for your self-pleasure practice. This intention can be as simple as embracing self-love, nurturing your sensuality, or simply exploring your body’s unique sensations. Allow your intention to guide you and infuse your practice with meaning and purpose.

Now, it’s time to become attuned to the beautiful sensations of your body. Take your time to explore different techniques for self-touch and stimulation. Listen to your body’s whispers and respond with gentle caresses, soft strokes, or whatever feels pleasurable to you. There is no rush or pressure here, only a space for you to honor and embrace your own desires and needs.

As you engage in self-touch and stimulation, let your curiosity be your guide. Discover the areas of your body that respond with heightened sensations and pleasure. Explore the contours of your curves, the warmth of your skin, and the softness of your touch. Each touch, each stroke, is an opportunity to deepen your connection with yourself and celebrate the beauty of your sensuality.

Remember, this is your sacred space for self-exploration. There are no rules or expectations. Allow yourself to be fully present in the moment, embracing the sensations that arise, and letting go of any judgment or self-doubt. This is a time for pure self-love and discovery.

Techniques for Exploration and Self Pleasure

Now let’s explore the wonderful techniques for self-love and pleasure! Remember, the key here is not to focus on achieving a specific goal like orgasm, but rather to embrace the beautiful sensations and experiences that unfold as you journey within yourself.

Start by gently touching and caressing every part of your external genitals, including the labia, clitoral hood, and the area surrounding the clitoris. Take your time to feel the textures, the warmth, and the incredible sensitivity of these areas. Notice how different touches elicit different sensations, from light strokes to gentle taps or even a gentle pulling motion. Allow your curiosity to guide you and explore what brings you pleasure.

To enhance your exploration, make sure to use plenty of lubrication. This will ensure smooth and comfortable movements as you delve deeper into your self-pleasure practice. When you feel ready, gently insert a finger and feel around the inner walls of your vagina. Pay attention to what you like and what feels pleasurable. As you reach a couple of inches inside on the front wall, you may notice a slightly bumpy area. Congratulations, my loves, you have found the G-spot! 

To stimulate the G-spot, make gentle circular motions with your finger. You may notice that the area starts to swell slightly as blood rushes to the spot. Experiment with different motions, pressures, and speeds, and see what feels best for you. You can also try a gentle pulling motion, as if motioning someone to come closer. Although you might not be able to reach it yourself, a bit deeper lies the anterior fornix, or A-spot. This is where the front wall of your vagina meets the cervix. Take your time to explore this area, noticing the unique sensations it brings.

To further enhance your exploration, you can introduce a yoni wand into the mix. Gently insert the yoni wand and continue exploring the same areas we discussed earlier. You may find it helpful to place your other hand on your tummy, providing a little counter pressure that can feel quite delightful. As you explore, pay attention to the area where your hand on the outside is closest to the wand on the inside. This area tends to be sensitive and may bring you pleasure. Vary the pressure, motion, and depth until you find something that truly resonates with you. Notice how the sensations build and allow yourself to simply be present in the moment.

Remember, there is no rush or pressure to achieve any specific outcome. This is your personal journey of self-love and pleasure. By embracing the sensations, exploring with an open heart, and listening to your body’s whispers, you can discover new depths of pleasure and connection within yourself. Allow the pressure to build naturally and if sensations of pleasure begin to intensify, allow yourself to surrender to the experience.

The Yoni Egg for Your Health and Pleasure 

Oh, my sweet friends, let’s dive into the magical world of the yoni egg and explore how it can bring a deeper sense of connection and focus to our yoni, the sacred space within us. The yoni egg is a beautiful tool made of crystal or gemstone that is inserted into the vagina for short periods of time, allowing us to explore and awaken our pelvic floor muscles.

Before we begin, it’s essential to create a calm and relaxed environment. Take a few moments to breathe deeply and release any tension or stress. To prepare your yoni for the egg, gently rub your fingers on your labia, allowing your yoni to open and accept the egg without discomfort or force. Remember, it’s important to approach this practice with love, gentleness, and patience.

To insert the yoni egg, find a comfortable position. You may choose to lie down, sit on the edge of a chair, or squat. Take a moment to relax and connect with your breath. Holding the egg with clean hands, gently guide it into your yoni, allowing it to find its place naturally. Trust your body’s wisdom and let it guide you in accepting the egg.

Once the yoni egg is comfortably positioned, you can engage in kegel exercises to further enhance your experience. To do this, focus on contracting and relaxing your pelvic floor muscles. As you tighten and release these muscles, you may notice the yoni egg moving slightly up and down, responding to the subtle movements. This can help you become more aware of your pelvic floor and deepen your connection with your yoni.

One of the beautiful aspects of the yoni egg is its versatility. You can wear it while engaging in various activities, such as walking around, stretching, doing yoga, or even doing household chores. As you move, the yoni egg may provide a gentle reminder of your connection to your yoni, infusing your daily activities with a sense of awareness and intention.

When it comes to hygiene and cleanliness, it’s important to prioritize your well-being. Before and after each use, make sure to thoroughly clean the yoni egg with warm water and mild soap. If you prefer, you can also use a toy cleaner specifically designed for intimate items. Remember to handle the yoni egg with care and store it in a clean, dry place between uses.

Wearing the yoni egg can be a profound experience, allowing you to cultivate a deeper sense of connection and focus on your yoni. As you engage in this practice, take the time to listen to your body, honor your boundaries, and embrace the sensations that arise. Remember, my darlings, this is a personal journey of self-discovery and self-love.

As you wear the yoni egg, you may delight in feeling it move and shift with you throughout the day. This can be a beautiful reminder of your connection to your yoni and an invitation to be present with the various sensations that arise. Each movement, whether it’s walking, stretching, or even doing chores, can become an opportunity to explore and embrace the little moments of pleasure that the yoni egg brings.

The yoni egg practice is not limited to solo exploration; it can also be incorporated into partnered experiences. Whether you’re engaging in self-pleasure or exploring with a partner, the yoni egg can add an extra layer of connection and sensation. It can be a delightful tool to discover new heights of pleasure and awaken your senses.

In addition to the sensual benefits, engaging in regular yoni egg practice can have positive impacts on your overall pelvic floor health. The exercises and movements involved in wearing the yoni egg can strengthen your pelvic floor muscles, which may lead to benefits such as improved bladder control, especially after childbirth, and enhanced muscle control during partnered sexual activities. As your pelvic floor becomes stronger, you may also experience more intense and fulfilling orgasms, adding another layer of joy to your intimate experiences.

Beyond the physical benefits, wearing a yoni egg can also support your journey of self-acceptance and body positivity. By connecting with your yoni and embracing the sensations it offers, you can cultivate a deeper sense of love and appreciation for your body. This practice encourages you to be gentle, kind, and patient with yourself, fostering a greater sense of well-being and self-empowerment.

Incorporating meditation and kegel exercises while wearing the yoni egg can further enhance the practice. Meditation allows you to tune in to your body, quiet the mind, and fully experience the sensations within. Kegel exercises, as mentioned earlier, help strengthen the pelvic floor muscles, which can have a range of health benefits. Always remember that your yoni egg practice is a personal and intimate journey. Listen to your body, honor your boundaries, and embrace the unique experiences that unfold.

Conclusion:

As we reach the end of our tantric journey together, let us reflect on the beauty and empowerment that comes from embracing self-touch and exploring the realms of G-spot and vaginal orgasms. The jade yoni wand and yoni egg, our sacred companions, honor the spiritual connection we have with our yonis and amplify our pleasure-filled exploration.

Remember,  this journey is yours and yours alone. Approach it with gentleness, patience, and a heart wide open. Tantra teaches us to be compassionate with ourselves, to honor our unique experiences, and to embrace the bliss that awaits us. Through the practices we’ve explored, you have the power to unlock the depths of self-orgasmic pleasure and experience profound joy within.

May you continue to nurture your sensual self, and may your journey be filled with self-discovery, self-love, and unending pleasure. Always remember, I am here to support you, to guide you, and to celebrate your growth. Take these learnings with you, hold them close, and let them guide you on your path of sensual awakening.

With all my love and warmest wishes, until we meet again on our next tantric adventure. Bye for now.